Interactions (part 1)
Men that have partners and present themselves as singles are kind of an anachronism is the lifestyle. There is the obvious ethical aspect that swinging is part of celebrating a successful relationship with someone. By cheating on their partners, these men only perpetuate several clichés. Of course the main one comes from their mental perspective that all women are whores, except for their wives, which are saints. Even if they are not. Looking at the statistics for infidelity, even if tainted by the fact that most liars will never admit they lie, cheat and steal, we see a much more balanced picture. The truth is that men and women, alike, do it… they just do it differently. While he goes after everything that moves, she will probably fuck her boss or work colleague. Women are smarter too… and they are used to cover it up!
As a couple, we sometimes get caught in this mess. We definitely avoid guys that we know have partners. Specially the ones in the lifestyle. If we have trouble getting to grips with the outside ones, just imagine the ones we know are also couples in the lifestyle. On the weekend, they go to the club with their partner. During the week, they work late and try to fuck every girl or couple they can, acting as single guys. Not long ago, we had a girl messaging us on our phone number, asking to take down the pictures we had with her boyfriend. She had done the whole investigation. She saw the pictures, got our number from his phone and got the whole picture. And they had a couple’s profile, verified by some other couples that had met them at a club. As we came to understand, as a couple, they only did exhibitionism and soft swap. She told us he didn’t want her to fuck other guys. Go figure!
Some time ago, we met a girl, in the lifestyle. We started to play with her, more or less frequently. However, a few months later, a guy we had met, maybe a year before, sent us a very angry message, asking why were we fucking his girlfriend. We were quite surprised as we had no idea who she was. When he sent over some pics, we realised the girl we had been playing for a few months was his girlfriend. She explained to us that it all started as a kind of vengeance because she discovered he had played with Steff. When girls set their minds to it, watch out!
Of course there are guys that act differently. We were playing with this guy for some time and he sent us a message asking if he could bring his girlfriend along. That has happened before but Martim is quite picky and always asks for a few pics to make sure the girl is “playable”, if you get the meaning. Pics received, Martim tells the guy that he is sorry but the girl is just too big for his taste (we don’t do girl on girl only). The guy actually took offence. We are still to hear from him again…
Just had a look at the profile of a couple we know for some time. They look quite the couple next door. A few pics, no genitalia in sight. A few verifications, carefully chosen, given by some “posh” couples and some club meetings. Of course, that is not the couple we know. The couple we know is the one that asks us to get a few guys so both ladies can fuck them. Last time, both girls took on 8 of them, fucking like crazy, until the guys had no more to give. The husband always makes a point of the guys coming on her mouth. And so they did… the 8 of them as Steff doesn’t allow for that. How is it possible if their profile specifies they don’t meet single guys?
Somehow, meeting single guys is kind of a discrimination point among couples. We never understood why and don’t really give a shit! We are who we are and have no need to pretend otherwise. It seems the “posh” couples in the lifestyle don’t meet guys… at least judging by their profiles… of course, if you ever see them in Cap d’Adge and the girl is sucking twenty something guys on a hidden spot of the beach, it’s probably a mirage…
Just had an exchange with a guy that was trying to meet us as a single, when we know perfectly well he is part of a couple. On top of that, the girl he is a couple with looks cute and “good enough to eat”. However, we have very little time to meet new couples. They are on our “to do” list (hotlist) for some time now but we still didn’t get to meet them. We have a few regular couples and girlfriends. Martim always prefers to meet the ones he knows he enjoys playing with. Meeting new people, especially couples, is a lot of work, when you have a wife like Steff and you end up fucking her and another girl or couple, at least, twice a week. Martim just isn’t that young anymore… as a result, he usually gives precedence to his favourite type: over 40, slim and orgasmic a. f. …
Another meet announcement comes up on our list for a certain couple. This couple is, in fact, not a couple for some time now. They split last year and they only have 2 verifications: one from a visit to a club, as a couple, where they “were seen” playing with each other, and from a party organiser that actually states it was only the “male half” attending. In spite of the fact that they are not a couple anymore, the guy keeps the fantasy going, putting up meeting ads on a daily basis. That’s all fine… but why the hell doesn’t he start a single's profile? He is probably on the look out for another “Sarah”… because, whatever their name is, they will always be “Sarah” to him…
We see a lot of people complaining about “time wasters”. What most won’t tell is that they are huge time wasters themselves and just get what they deserve. Most time wasters are easy to spot… they have noticeably fake profiles. The real trouble are the ones that are real players but… for instance, we know a few that try to schedule several things at the same time. At last minute, they will choose what they will do, if they are given any alternatives. Mostly, they will go for the “new” because, you know, it’s all a question of numbers. It doesn’t even matter how good it looks (or not). On the other hand, they can always get to the meeting place just to find out they were let down in favour of someone else (yes, two can play that game).
This is the kind of thing that leads people to the clubs and organised parties. But this is a very "hit and miss" option. Whenever disappointed with this, people will try to go back to meeting someone that actually fucks. The problem is that their previous behaviour generated a very scarce marketplace, if you get the idea. Besides, they come to realise that the clubs and the organised parties, for the most part, are just a way of exploiting the greedy guys that are always ready to be exploited.
As a couple, we sometimes get caught in this mess. We definitely avoid guys that we know have partners. Specially the ones in the lifestyle. If we have trouble getting to grips with the outside ones, just imagine the ones we know are also couples in the lifestyle. On the weekend, they go to the club with their partner. During the week, they work late and try to fuck every girl or couple they can, acting as single guys. Not long ago, we had a girl messaging us on our phone number, asking to take down the pictures we had with her boyfriend. She had done the whole investigation. She saw the pictures, got our number from his phone and got the whole picture. And they had a couple’s profile, verified by some other couples that had met them at a club. As we came to understand, as a couple, they only did exhibitionism and soft swap. She told us he didn’t want her to fuck other guys. Go figure!
Some time ago, we met a girl, in the lifestyle. We started to play with her, more or less frequently. However, a few months later, a guy we had met, maybe a year before, sent us a very angry message, asking why were we fucking his girlfriend. We were quite surprised as we had no idea who she was. When he sent over some pics, we realised the girl we had been playing for a few months was his girlfriend. She explained to us that it all started as a kind of vengeance because she discovered he had played with Steff. When girls set their minds to it, watch out!
Of course there are guys that act differently. We were playing with this guy for some time and he sent us a message asking if he could bring his girlfriend along. That has happened before but Martim is quite picky and always asks for a few pics to make sure the girl is “playable”, if you get the meaning. Pics received, Martim tells the guy that he is sorry but the girl is just too big for his taste (we don’t do girl on girl only). The guy actually took offence. We are still to hear from him again…
***
Just had a look at the profile of a couple we know for some time. They look quite the couple next door. A few pics, no genitalia in sight. A few verifications, carefully chosen, given by some “posh” couples and some club meetings. Of course, that is not the couple we know. The couple we know is the one that asks us to get a few guys so both ladies can fuck them. Last time, both girls took on 8 of them, fucking like crazy, until the guys had no more to give. The husband always makes a point of the guys coming on her mouth. And so they did… the 8 of them as Steff doesn’t allow for that. How is it possible if their profile specifies they don’t meet single guys?
Somehow, meeting single guys is kind of a discrimination point among couples. We never understood why and don’t really give a shit! We are who we are and have no need to pretend otherwise. It seems the “posh” couples in the lifestyle don’t meet guys… at least judging by their profiles… of course, if you ever see them in Cap d’Adge and the girl is sucking twenty something guys on a hidden spot of the beach, it’s probably a mirage…
***
Just had an exchange with a guy that was trying to meet us as a single, when we know perfectly well he is part of a couple. On top of that, the girl he is a couple with looks cute and “good enough to eat”. However, we have very little time to meet new couples. They are on our “to do” list (hotlist) for some time now but we still didn’t get to meet them. We have a few regular couples and girlfriends. Martim always prefers to meet the ones he knows he enjoys playing with. Meeting new people, especially couples, is a lot of work, when you have a wife like Steff and you end up fucking her and another girl or couple, at least, twice a week. Martim just isn’t that young anymore… as a result, he usually gives precedence to his favourite type: over 40, slim and orgasmic a. f. …
***
Another meet announcement comes up on our list for a certain couple. This couple is, in fact, not a couple for some time now. They split last year and they only have 2 verifications: one from a visit to a club, as a couple, where they “were seen” playing with each other, and from a party organiser that actually states it was only the “male half” attending. In spite of the fact that they are not a couple anymore, the guy keeps the fantasy going, putting up meeting ads on a daily basis. That’s all fine… but why the hell doesn’t he start a single's profile? He is probably on the look out for another “Sarah”… because, whatever their name is, they will always be “Sarah” to him…
***
We see a lot of people complaining about “time wasters”. What most won’t tell is that they are huge time wasters themselves and just get what they deserve. Most time wasters are easy to spot… they have noticeably fake profiles. The real trouble are the ones that are real players but… for instance, we know a few that try to schedule several things at the same time. At last minute, they will choose what they will do, if they are given any alternatives. Mostly, they will go for the “new” because, you know, it’s all a question of numbers. It doesn’t even matter how good it looks (or not). On the other hand, they can always get to the meeting place just to find out they were let down in favour of someone else (yes, two can play that game).
This is the kind of thing that leads people to the clubs and organised parties. But this is a very "hit and miss" option. Whenever disappointed with this, people will try to go back to meeting someone that actually fucks. The problem is that their previous behaviour generated a very scarce marketplace, if you get the idea. Besides, they come to realise that the clubs and the organised parties, for the most part, are just a way of exploiting the greedy guys that are always ready to be exploited.
Such a wonderful blog. Thoughtful, authentic, genuine and a credit to the couple involved. Exceptional images and real detail in their feelings and posts. I await their next post with anticipation. Often, my mind wanders as I wear my chastity cage, so wanting to hide the key as I sit and imagine her with the powerful men as I dream of what could be.....
ReplyDeleteUntil the next post is written.
Thanks.